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Articles that changed me for the better (ongoing)

Basically, my list of recommended articles and other links

01 May 2022 — 2 min read

Here’s an ongoing list of articles and other links that shaped my thinking and maybe even life.

On awareness / mental health

Awareness is a User Interface: “If the space between stimulus and response is very small, you will almost certainly end up following your habitual response, over and over. Your options disappear just at the moment you might want to choose one of them.”
There Is No Moral Imperative to Be Miserable: “It’s the system’s fault,” becomes, “there’s nothing I can do if I’m depressed because it’s the system.” This way of thinking can trap people in a kind of nihilism, whereby any action short of a revolution is framed as hopeless.”

Design games so you enjoy playing them: “The liberating insight from all this is that if some area of life isn’t experienced as playful then you can change things until it is. Make the game easier, make it more challenging, including other players, find new players, change the rules, flout the rules!”
What if People Don’t Want ‘A Career’: “It’s not a full-scale rejection of capitalism (though it can be that) or a call to burn down the system altogether. Those questioning their careers are simply daring to imagine what a better, more equitable future of work might look like.”
The Nine Future Of Work Mindsets You Need For The Weird New World of Work
Level up: “You'll find the future wherever people are having the most fun.”

The clever ways we resist career change**: “**The biggest — and perhaps highest stakes — reason we resist change is that it puts at risk our identities and self-views.”
Mimetic Desire 101: “The things themselves don’t matter much when it comes to desire. We care about people (models), not things. They represent some quality of being that we think we lack.”
It’s Okay to Outgrow the Life You Thought You Wanted: “Sometimes, learning what you don’t want might be as important as discovering what you do. That’s growing, too.”

How to Be Happy: “Happiness is relative in another sense, too: it is relative to your expectations.”
Rick and Morty and the Meaning of Life: “The problem is that you were asking the wrong question. What the meaning of life is not the question you should ask. The proper question is: What does it mean to you?”
More links I compiled here and here.

the right thing for you will not feel wrong all the time: “something being hard is different from something being wrong for you. When something is hard, you might be incredibly uncertain about the outcome, but you’re probably confident in the path, both the day-to-day process of it and the value and the joy. When it’s wrong, it’s out of whack with your basic needs.”